Things You Can Refuse During Labor and Delivery

Every person giving birth in a hospital retains the legal right to accept or decline medical procedures, even during active labor. That right extends to virtually everything offered in the labor room, from IV lines and fetal monitors to episiotomies and newborn eye ointment. Pain, stress, and the urgency of the moment do not erase a laboring person’s capacity to make decisions; under all but the rarest clinical circumstances, informed consent is still required before any treatment can be given to you or your baby.1PubMed. Childbirth Is Not a Medical Emergency: Maternal Right to Informed Consent throughout Labor and Delivery Knowing what you can say no to, and what the evidence actually shows about each intervention, puts you in a stronger position to make choices that fit your birth.

Your Legal Right to Refuse

The legal foundation here is straightforward. You have a constitutional right to refuse unwanted medical procedures, grounded in bodily integrity, self-determination, and privacy.2PubMed Central. Management of Pregnant Patients Who Refuse Medically Indicated Cesarean Delivery This includes the right to decline a cesarean section, even when your medical team believes it is indicated. Courts and medical ethics organizations have affirmed repeatedly that pregnancy does not suspend a person’s right to bodily autonomy. Providers can recommend, explain risks, and document your refusal, but they cannot override your decision.

That said, exercising this right in the moment can feel harder than it sounds. A brightly lit room, a provider you’ve just met, and a contraction that makes it hard to think clearly are not ideal conditions for asserting yourself. This is why understanding the specific interventions ahead of time matters: it is much easier to decline something you have already thought through than to make a snap decision under pressure.

Continuous Electronic Fetal Monitoring

One of the most common interventions in hospital birth is continuous electronic fetal monitoring, where two sensors strapped around your abdomen track the baby’s heart rate and your contractions nonstop throughout labor. For low-risk pregnancies, there is strong consensus among professional and governmental groups that intermittent monitoring, where a nurse or midwife periodically listens to the baby’s heartbeat with a handheld device, is actually the safer option.3PubMed Central. Fetal monitoring: creating a culture of safety with informed choice Continuous monitoring picks up more ambiguous readings that lead to further interventions without improving outcomes for the baby.

A Cochrane systematic review found that continuous monitoring was associated with roughly a 40% increase in cesarean deliveries and a 20% increase in operative vaginal deliveries like vacuum or forceps births.4Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews. The efficacy and safety of routine continuous electronic fetal monitoring during labor Continuous monitoring also tethers you to the bed, which limits your ability to move, change positions, or use a shower or birth ball for pain relief. You can request intermittent auscultation instead, though some hospitals may push back if it is not their standard protocol. If you have a high-risk pregnancy, continuous monitoring may be more clearly warranted, so this is worth discussing with your provider before labor begins.

Routine IV Fluids

Many hospitals start an IV line on every laboring person as a matter of routine, either running fluids continuously or placing a “hep lock” (a capped port ready for use if needed). You can refuse both. The evidence on routine IV fluids is mixed. A Cochrane review of trials in first-time mothers found that IV fluids shortened labor by about half an hour on average for those delivering vaginally, but did not reduce the rate of cesarean delivery.5PubMed Central. Intravenous fluids for reducing the duration of labour in low risk nulliparous women

A randomized trial comparing oral fluids alone versus IV hydration at different rates found no statistically significant difference in labor duration, mode of delivery, or neonatal outcomes between the groups. The one clear benefit of IV fluids was a reduction in vomiting during labor.6PubMed. A randomized controlled trial to study the effect of IV hydration on the duration of labor in nulliparous women If you are eating and drinking freely during labor and have no medical complications, an IV line is convenience for the staff, not a necessity for you. The trade-off is that if an emergency arises and you need medication or fluids fast, there will be a brief delay while a line is placed. Many people find a reasonable middle ground in accepting a hep lock but declining continuous fluids.

Frequent Vaginal Exams

Cervical checks during labor are a common source of discomfort and anxiety, and every single one requires your consent. You can decline any or all of them. The question is not whether vaginal exams are ever useful (they can help gauge progress) but whether the number typically performed is necessary. A retrospective study of over 8,000 births found that having five or more vaginal exams during labor was independently linked to higher rates of fever. The risk climbed steadily: women who had seven or eight exams had roughly two and a half times the risk of fever during labor compared to those with fewer exams, and nine or more exams nearly tripled the risk of peripartum complications.7PubMed Central. The correlation between the number of vaginal examinations during active labor and febrile morbidity, a retrospective cohort study

A separate study found that people who had eight or more cervical exams had 1.7 times the risk of developing chorioamnionitis, a potentially serious infection of the membranes surrounding the baby, compared with those who had one to three exams.8American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology MFM. Incremental risk of clinical chorioamnionitis associated with cervical examination The researchers concluded that unnecessary cervical exams should be avoided. You might choose to limit checks to specific decision points, such as when you are considering an epidural or when the team needs to confirm full dilation before you start pushing.

Amniotomy (Breaking the Waters)

Amniotomy, where a provider uses a small hook to rupture your amniotic sac, is frequently offered to speed up labor. A systematic review found that amniotomy does shorten labor without increasing the risk of complications for mother or baby.9PubMed Central. Artificial Rupture of Membranes and Spontaneous Rupture of Membranes: A Systematic Review of Feto-Maternal Outcomes However, the same review noted that selective use, rather than routine use in every labor, offers more balanced outcomes. Once your membranes are ruptured, there is generally a clock on delivery because of infection risk, which can increase pressure for further interventions like synthetic oxytocin if labor does not progress quickly enough. You are within your rights to let your membranes rupture on their own and to ask your provider to explain why amniotomy is being recommended at that particular moment before agreeing.

Directed Pushing

The classic movie scene of nurses shouting “Push! Push!” is still common in hospitals, but you can decline coached or directed pushing in favor of following your body’s own urges. Directed pushing, sometimes called Valsalva pushing, involves taking a deep breath, holding it, and bearing down hard for a count of ten, repeating several times per contraction. Spontaneous pushing means you push when and how your body tells you to. A randomized trial comparing the two approaches found that spontaneous pushing was associated with a shorter second stage of labor and higher Apgar scores in newborns.10International Journal of Health Services Research and Policy. THE EFFECT OF PUSHING TECHNIQUES ON DURATION OF THE SECOND LABOR STAGE, MOTHER AND FETUS: A RANDOMIZED CONTROLLED TRIAL

A broader review found no significant differences between the two approaches for perineal injuries, episiotomies, or type of birth, though one study within the review did find better newborn outcomes in the spontaneous group.11Gynécologie Obstétrique & Fertilité. Do maternal pushing techniques during labour affect obstetric or neonatal outcomes? The bottom line: directed pushing has not been shown to produce better outcomes, and it may produce worse ones. If you prefer to push instinctively, say so.

Episiotomy

An episiotomy is a surgical cut made to widen the vaginal opening during delivery. Routine episiotomy has fallen out of favor in evidence-based practice, but it still happens. A network meta-analysis comparing routine, restrictive, and no-episiotomy approaches found that skipping the cut did increase the chance of minor first-degree tears. However, there were no significant differences between any of the three approaches in rates of more serious second-, third-, or fourth-degree tears, second-stage labor duration, or postpartum perineal pain.12PubMed Central. Network meta-analysis of episiotomy approaches: comparing routine, restrictive, and non-episiotomy strategies and their effects on maternal and neonatal outcomes in primiparous patients In other words, a small natural tear typically heals at least as well as a surgical cut, and the serious injuries people fear are not prevented by routine episiotomy. You can decline one unless your provider explains a specific, urgent reason it is needed in your particular situation.

Positioning During Labor and Delivery

Lying flat on your back is the standard delivery position in most hospitals, but it is one of the least physiologically helpful. It narrows the pelvic outlet and works against gravity. Research on alternative positions shows real advantages: using a birth ball in a sitting position can reduce pain scores and shorten the second stage of labor by about twenty minutes, while kneeling widens the mid-pelvis and outlet by roughly a centimeter. Semi-sitting positions have been associated with significantly lower pain scores than lying supine.13Frontiers in Medicine. Free positions in the second stage of labor for pelvic floor protection: a narrative review You can ask to labor and deliver in whatever position feels best: hands and knees, squatting, side-lying, standing, or using a squat bar attached to the bed. If you have an epidural, your options narrow because of reduced leg sensation, but side-lying and supported upright positions are still feasible.

When You Show Up to the Hospital

This one is not about refusing a procedure but about a choice that affects which procedures you are offered. Arriving at the hospital during early (latent) labor rather than waiting until active labor is associated with a cascade of additional interventions. A study found that people admitted in the latent phase were more than three times as likely to receive epidural analgesia and nearly three times as likely to receive oxytocin augmentation.14PubMed Central. Hospital Admission in the Latent versus the Active Phase of Labor: Comparison of Perinatal Outcomes A separate correlational study confirmed that early admission was associated with higher rates of cesarean section, instrumental birth, amniotomy, oxytocin, and epidural use.15Women and Birth. Timing of hospital admission in labour: latent versus active phase, mode of birth and intrapartum interventions. A correlational study If your pregnancy is low-risk, staying home during early labor and laboring in a familiar environment until contractions are well established can reduce your exposure to interventions you might not need.

Cord Clamping and Third Stage Management

After your baby is born, two things happen in quick succession: the umbilical cord is clamped and cut, and the placenta is delivered. You have choices about both. Early cord clamping, within seconds of birth, used to be standard practice. The evidence now overwhelmingly favors waiting. A meta-analysis found that delayed clamping cut the risk of anemia in infants roughly in half over the first six months of life and significantly improved iron stores.16JAMA. Late vs Early Clamping of the Umbilical Cord in Full-term Neonates: Systematic Review and Meta-analysis of Controlled Trials A randomized trial confirmed that delayed clamping boosted ferritin levels by about 45% at four months and dramatically reduced iron deficiency, with no increase in jaundice requiring treatment or other adverse effects.17PubMed. Effect of delayed versus early umbilical cord clamping on neonatal outcomes and iron status at 4 months: a randomised controlled trial

For placenta delivery, hospitals typically use “active management,” meaning a uterotonic drug (usually synthetic oxytocin) is given right after birth, the cord is clamped early, and the provider applies controlled traction to deliver the placenta. The alternative, “expectant management,” means waiting for the placenta to separate and deliver on its own with gravity and your pushing. A Cochrane review found that active management reduces blood loss and shortens the third stage of labor, but can cause side effects like nausea, vomiting, and increased blood pressure.18PubMed Central. Active versus expectant management for women in the third stage of labour A trial in women at low risk for hemorrhage found that while active management preserved slightly higher hemoglobin levels, it did not reduce the risk of severe postpartum hemorrhage in that population.19PubMed. Comparison of active vs. expectant management of the third stage of labor in women with low risk of postpartum hemorrhage: a randomized controlled trial If you are low-risk, expectant management is a reasonable option. If you are at higher risk for bleeding, active management has a clearer benefit.

Newborn Procedures You Can Decline or Delay

Several routine procedures are performed on your baby within hours of birth, and you have the right to accept, decline, or modify each one.

Vitamin K injection is given to prevent a rare but potentially catastrophic bleeding disorder. Newborns are born with very low vitamin K levels, and without supplementation, some develop bleeding that can include brain hemorrhage. Skipping the injection has been linked to roughly three-fold higher odds of intracranial bleeding during infancy.20JAMA Pediatrics. Vitamin K Prophylaxis in Newborns and Bleeding in Infancy Refusal of vitamin K prophylaxis has been increasing in some areas, and case reports of life-threatening bleeding have followed.21Pediatric Neurology. Rise in Late Onset Vitamin K Deficiency Bleeding in Young Infants Because of Omission or Refusal of Prophylaxis at Birth While you have the legal right to refuse, the evidence here is unusually clear-cut: the injection prevents a rare but devastating outcome with essentially no downside.

Erythromycin eye ointment is applied to prevent eye infections that can be transmitted during vaginal birth, particularly from gonorrhea and chlamydia. Because prenatal screening and treatment for these infections is now standard, neonatal eye infections from those causes are uncommon today, and the ointment available in the United States does not effectively prevent chlamydial conjunctivitis anyway. If you have tested negative for both infections during pregnancy, declining the eye ointment is a conversation worth having with your pediatrician. Some states still legally mandate it, so check your local requirements.

The first bath is another area where you can ask staff to wait. A systematic review found that delaying the first bath to at least six hours after birth probably improves breastfeeding at discharge and may reduce hypothermia risk.22PubMed Central. Timing of first bath in term healthy newborns: A systematic review The vernix, the waxy coating on a newborn’s skin, has protective and moisturizing properties, so there is no medical rush to wash it off.

Skin-to-skin contact immediately after birth is increasingly standard, but it can be interrupted by staff wanting to weigh, measure, or perform procedures on the baby. A Cochrane review found that early, uninterrupted skin-to-skin contact improved breastfeeding rates at one to four months postbirth.23Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews. Early skin-to-skin contact for mothers and their healthy newborn infants Early interruptions of skin-to-skin contact reduce the likelihood of successful early breastfeeding.24PubMed. Observation of Skin-to-Skin Contact and Analysis of Factors Linked to Failure to Breastfeed Within 2 Hours After Birth You can request that non-urgent newborn assessments happen while the baby is on your chest or be delayed until after an initial bonding period.

Pain Management on Your Terms

You can decline an epidural, and you can also request one. Both are valid choices. What matters is that the decision is yours and not driven by hospital protocols or provider preference. If you want to manage pain without medication, a meta-analysis of nonpharmacologic approaches found that techniques like hydrotherapy, massage, breathing exercises, and movement provided meaningful pain relief without causing harm to mothers or babies.25PubMed. Nonpharmacologic approaches for pain management during labor compared with usual care: a meta-analysis You can also change your mind midway through. Saying you want an unmedicated birth in your birth plan does not obligate you to refuse an epidural at seven centimeters if you want one.

Doula Support and Continuous Companionship

One of the strongest evidence-based tools for improving birth outcomes is simply having continuous support from a dedicated person. A Cochrane review of over 15,000 women found that those with continuous labor support were about 25% less likely to have a cesarean birth, less likely to need instrumental delivery, and their labors were on average about 40 minutes shorter. Their babies were less likely to have low Apgar scores, and the mothers reported more positive birth experiences.26Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews. Continuous support for women during childbirth A doula, a trained nonmedical birth companion, is one way to get this support. Doula care has been associated with reduced cesarean rates, less anxiety, and improved breastfeeding, with particular benefits for low-income women.27PubMed Central. The Effect of Doulas on Maternal and Birth Outcomes: A Scoping Review A doula can also help you communicate your preferences to staff when you are focused on labor.

Birth Plans and How to Use Them

Writing a birth plan is a useful exercise for thinking through your preferences, but the research on their impact is surprisingly mixed. A review found that birth planning increases women’s sense of control and satisfaction with the birth process by facilitating communication with providers.28PubMed Central. Maternal-infant outcomes of birth planning: A review study When integrated into childbirth preparation classes, birth plans have been linked to higher satisfaction and earlier breastfeeding initiation.29PubMed Central. Effect of birth plans integrated into childbirth preparation classes on maternal and neonatal outcomes of Iranian women: A randomized controlled trial

However, at least one prospective study found that women who had a birth plan actually felt less satisfied and less in control than those who did not.30PubMed. Birth plans-Impact on mode of delivery, obstetrical interventions, and birth experience satisfaction: A prospective cohort study The likely explanation is not that planning is bad, but that rigid expectations can set you up for disappointment when labor takes unexpected turns. The most useful birth plans tend to be short, flexible, and framed as preferences rather than demands. Think of it less as a contract and more as a conversation starter with your care team. Include what matters most to you, and accept that some of those preferences may need to shift if the clinical picture changes.

When Refusal Gets Complicated

Everything discussed so far assumes a low-risk, uncomplicated labor. When genuine emergencies arise, the calculus shifts. A baby whose heart rate drops suddenly and does not recover, a cord prolapse, or severe maternal hemorrhage are situations where seconds count and declining intervention carries serious, immediate risk. The legal right to refuse still exists in these moments, but the clinical stakes are very different from declining a routine IV in early labor.

The harder gray zone is when providers frame a recommendation as more urgent than the evidence supports. “Your baby is in distress” can mean anything from a slightly abnormal heart rate tracing (extremely common with continuous monitoring) to a genuine emergency. This is where preparation pays off. Asking questions like “Is this urgent right now, or do we have time to discuss it?” and “What happens if we wait thirty minutes?” can help you distinguish between a recommendation driven by convenience or liability and one driven by a real clinical need. Having a partner or doula who understands your preferences and can ask these questions when you are in the thick of a contraction is invaluable.

Providers who feel strongly that you are making a dangerous choice may involve hospital ethics committees, social workers, or in very rare cases seek court orders. These scenarios are uncommon but not unheard of, particularly around cesarean refusal. Knowing that your right to refuse is well established in law does not mean the experience of exercising it will always be smooth. Choosing a provider and birth setting aligned with your values before labor begins is the single most effective way to avoid confrontations during it.

Sebastian Gallagher

Board certified in maternal-fetal medicine, Sebastian Gallagher has two decades of experience caring for complicated pregnancies. He earned his MD at Harvard Medical School. At an academic medical center he leads a prenatal diagnosis program and sees patients with recurrent pregnancy loss, multiple pregnancies and pre-existing medical conditions. He writes about prenatal genetic screening, ultrasound, pregnancy after loss, and planning a pregnancy with a chronic illness.