Why Haven’t I Gotten My Period in 3 Months and I’m a Virgin?

The absence of a menstrual period for three or more consecutive cycles is medically termed secondary amenorrhea. While pregnancy is the most common reason for a missed period, this explanation does not apply to every individual. The menstrual cycle is highly sensitive to hormonal, metabolic, and environmental influences. This article focuses on non-pregnancy-related factors that disrupt the hormonal signals required to trigger a monthly cycle. Understanding these causes is the first step toward restoring a regular cycle and maintaining long-term health.

How Lifestyle Factors Disrupt the Cycle

The most frequent cause of a missed period in an otherwise healthy young woman is Functional Hypothalamic Amenorrhea (FHA). FHA arises when the hypothalamus, a control center in the brain, slows or stops releasing Gonadotropin-Releasing Hormone (GnRH). GnRH signals the pituitary gland to produce hormones that stimulate the ovaries, meaning this disruption effectively pauses the reproductive system.

Chronic psychological stress is a powerful inhibitor because it activates the Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Adrenal (HPA) axis, the body’s primary stress response system. This activation elevates the stress hormone cortisol. High cortisol levels interfere directly with the release of GnRH, preventing the hormonal cascade necessary for ovulation and menstruation.

Another significant cause is a severe energy deficit, often seen with excessive exercise or restrictive eating. When the body perceives insufficient energy reserves, it suppresses non-survival functions like reproduction to conserve resources. This is closely linked to low body weight or a very low percentage of body fat.

Adipose tissue produces the hormone leptin, which signals the hypothalamus that energy stores are adequate for reproduction. Low body weight or rapid weight loss causes leptin levels to drop significantly, reinforcing the hypothalamus’s decision to halt the menstrual cycle. Intense training without adequate caloric intake can also create Relative Energy Deficiency in Sport (RED-S), where energy expenditure exceeds caloric intake, leading to FHA.

Hormonal and Systemic Medical Causes

Beyond lifestyle factors, several underlying medical conditions can cause hormonal imbalances severe enough to cause secondary amenorrhea. Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) is a common endocrine disorder affecting women of reproductive age. It is characterized by an imbalance in reproductive hormones, often involving elevated levels of androgens.

The hormonal environment of PCOS disrupts follicle maturation in the ovaries, preventing ovulation and leading to missed periods. A physician may suspect PCOS if other symptoms are present, such as excessive body hair growth or acne. Blood tests may reveal a characteristic imbalance in the ratio of Luteinizing Hormone (LH) to Follicle-Stimulating Hormone (FSH).

The thyroid gland produces hormones that regulate metabolism, and its function is intimately connected to the reproductive system. Both an underactive thyroid (hypothyroidism) and an overactive thyroid (hyperthyroidism) can lead to menstrual cycle irregularities, including amenorrhea. A simple blood test to check Thyroid-Stimulating Hormone (TSH) levels is routinely performed to investigate this.

Disruption of the pituitary gland can also cause a missed period by altering hormone balance. An elevation of the hormone prolactin, called hyperprolactinemia, is one example. While prolactin’s primary role is milk production, its excessive presence suppresses the release of GnRH from the hypothalamus, stopping the menstrual cycle. Certain medications, including some antipsychotic drugs and antidepressants, can cause hyperprolactinemia as a side effect.

Next Steps and Medical Evaluation

If you have missed three or more consecutive menstrual cycles, schedule an appointment with a healthcare provider for a thorough evaluation. The first step is a medical history review, including questions about diet, exercise habits, stress levels, and medications. A physical examination will also be performed.

The diagnostic process relies heavily on blood tests to evaluate the hormonal system. These tests typically measure TSH to check thyroid function, prolactin to rule out hyperprolactinemia, and the pituitary hormones FSH and LH to determine the signaling status of the HPO axis. A definitive pregnancy test is performed even if you are certain you are not pregnant, as it is a standard part of the diagnostic protocol.

Depending on initial findings, a doctor might order a pelvic ultrasound to examine the ovaries and uterus for structural issues or characteristics consistent with PCOS. Once the underlying cause is identified, treatment can be tailored through lifestyle modification, addressing a systemic disease, or managing a hormonal disorder. Seeking diagnosis is important because prolonged absence of a period, particularly one caused by low estrogen, can lead to long-term health issues such as a decrease in bone mineral density.