Why Do I Keep Getting BV From My Partner?

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) is the most common vaginal infection, affecting nearly one in three women globally and causing significant frustration due to its high rate of return. This condition is not a typical infection caused by a foreign invader, but rather an imbalance, or dysbiosis, of the vaginal microbiome. The healthy vaginal environment, which is naturally acidic, loses its protective, lactic-acid-producing Lactobacillus bacteria, allowing an overgrowth of various anaerobic bacteria like Gardnerella vaginalis. Over 50% of women who are successfully treated for BV will experience a recurrence within six months, leading to repeated cycles of treatment and symptoms.

Understanding Why BV Recurrence is Common

The frequent return of Bacterial Vaginosis is often rooted in the individual’s biological response to the infection and its treatment. A major factor is the formation of a protective layer called a biofilm by the BV-associated bacteria. This biofilm is a complex, slimy matrix that allows the pathogenic bacteria, particularly Gardnerella vaginalis, to adhere to the vaginal walls.

The physical protection of the biofilm makes it incredibly difficult for standard oral or vaginal antibiotics to penetrate and fully eradicate all the harmful bacteria. While the medication may kill the free-floating bacteria, residual organisms hidden within the biofilm survive the treatment, leaving a seed for the infection to quickly regrow. This incomplete eradication creates a cycle of temporary relief followed by rapid recurrence.

The problem is compounded because antibiotics are not selective; they kill the beneficial Lactobacillus species alongside the harmful bacteria. After treatment, the vaginal environment is often left depleted of its natural defenses, which are necessary to maintain a healthy, acidic pH. Without sufficient Lactobacillus to produce lactic acid, the vaginal pH remains elevated, encouraging the surviving pathogenic bacteria to proliferate and form a new infection.

The Role of the Partner in BV Transmission

The question of whether a partner can transmit BV is complex because it is not officially classified as a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI). However, BV is strongly linked to sexual activity, and women who have sex with a regular partner have a significantly higher risk of recurrence. This suggests that sexual contact plays a substantial role in triggering its return.

In heterosexual couples, the introduction of semen during intercourse can be a primary trigger for recurrence. Semen has a naturally higher pH (more alkaline) than the healthy vaginal environment, temporarily neutralizing the protective acidity of the vagina. This shift in pH can provide the perfect window for the residual BV-associated bacteria to multiply rapidly, causing a symptomatic flare-up.

Furthermore, male partners can act as an asymptomatic reservoir for BV-associated bacteria. Studies show that bacteria like Gardnerella vaginalis can colonize the penile skin and the urethra, particularly in uncircumcised men. When the couple resumes unprotected sex, these bacteria can be reintroduced into the woman’s newly treated, fragile vaginal microbiome, leading to reinfection and recurrence. This mechanism of partner carriage and reintroduction is considered a major driver of recurrent BV.

Partner-Specific Prevention and Treatment Protocols

Given the strong link between sexual activity and recurrence, involving the partner in prevention is a practical strategy. The immediate use of barrier methods, specifically condoms, can reduce the introduction of foreign bacteria and alkaline fluids like semen, helping to stabilize the vaginal environment immediately following treatment. However, certain vaginal treatments, such as clindamycin cream, can weaken latex condoms, requiring temporary abstinence or the use of alternative barrier methods.

Historically, routine treatment of male partners was not standard medical practice because earlier trials did not show a clear benefit. However, recent clinical trials have provided strong evidence that treating the male partner significantly reduces the woman’s BV recurrence rate. This successful protocol involved the male partner receiving both an oral antibiotic, such as metronidazole, and a topical antibiotic cream applied to the penis for seven days, concurrent with the woman’s treatment.

This combined approach targets the bacteria both internally and on the skin, clearing the asymptomatic reservoir that often causes reinfection. Clinicians may now recommend this concurrent partner treatment, especially for women in monogamous relationships who suffer from frequent recurrence. Open communication with a healthcare provider is necessary to determine if this protocol is appropriate, as it requires strict adherence and temporary abstinence from sexual contact during the treatment period.

Strategies for Maintaining Vaginal Microbiome Balance

Long-term prevention requires strengthening the vaginal environment to resist future imbalances. Probiotics containing specific Lactobacillus strains are a key strategy for maintaining this balance. The strains most consistently linked to vaginal health are Lactobacillus rhamnosus, Lactobacillus reuteri, and especially Lactobacillus crispatus, which is dominant in a stable, healthy vaginal microbiome.

These beneficial bacteria work by producing lactic acid, which helps to restore and maintain the low, acidic pH that inhibits the growth of BV-associated bacteria. Probiotics can be taken orally, working through a gut-vagina pathway, or administered directly as vaginal suppositories, which deliver a higher concentration of the bacteria. Using these targeted probiotics after antibiotic treatment may help the vaginal flora quickly reestablish its natural protective dominance.

Lifestyle changes also play a role in supporting a resilient vaginal microbiome. It is important to avoid practices that strip away the natural protective flora, such as douching, which can severely disrupt the pH balance. Similarly, scented soaps, body washes, and harsh feminine hygiene products should be avoided for the vulva. Wearing breathable cotton underwear and avoiding prolonged wear of tight, synthetic clothing helps prevent moisture buildup that creates a favorable environment for pathogenic bacteria.