Why Do I Feel Baby Kicks in My Bum?

The experience of feeling what seems like a baby’s kick or jab deep in the lower pelvis, rectum, or perineum is a surprising but very common sensation during pregnancy. This unusual feeling, often described as a sudden jolt or pressure in the “bottom” area, can cause confusion because it seems physically impossible for the baby to be positioned there. Rest assured, this sensation is normal and is directly related to the tight anatomical fit and specific positioning of the baby. Understanding how the baby is situated and the density of the lower abdomen helps explain exactly why this phenomenon occurs.

Understanding Fetal Position

The location where a mother feels fetal movement is largely determined by the baby’s orientation within the womb. As the pregnancy progresses, the baby moves from having ample space to being more confined, and their final positions direct the force of their movements. When the baby is in the cephalic, or head-down position, which is typical later in the third trimester, their limbs are generally pointing upward toward the mother’s ribs.

However, once the baby “drops,” or engages, their head settles deep into the bony basin of the pelvis, which is a process known as lightening. This physical descent means the baby’s entire body is lower, directing any arm jabs, stretches, or even hiccups straight down. These downward movements exert pressure directly into the lower part of the maternal abdomen, which is then transmitted through the surrounding tissues and felt in the deep pelvic region.

A different scenario involves a breech presentation, where the baby’s feet or bottom are positioned downward. In this case, the powerful leg kicks are aimed directly at the lower uterine segment, resulting in strong, unmistakable movements deep in the pelvis. Whether the baby is head-down and engaged or temporarily breech, the primary cause of the low sensation is the direct path of the baby’s movement toward the bottom of the abdominal cavity.

The Pelvic Anatomy Connection

The feeling of movement in the rectum or perineum is a direct result of the tightly packed nature of the lower pelvic cavity. The uterus, particularly its lower segment and cervix, shares very close quarters with other structures, including the bladder in the front and the rectum behind it. There is minimal space between the back wall of the uterus and the front wall of the rectum, meaning any force applied to the uterine wall is immediately transferred to the adjacent organs.

When a baby’s hand or foot pushes against the lower wall of the uterus, that pressure waves out and presses against the nearby rectal wall or the network of ligaments and nerves in the pelvic floor. The nervous system in this region, which includes the dense cluster of nerves surrounding the rectum and anus, interprets this direct, sudden pressure as a sensation originating from that exact spot. This anatomical proximity explains why a tiny fetal jab can feel like a direct kick to the “bum.”

The sensation is often intensified because the nerves that supply the pelvic floor are highly sensitive and interconnected. Pressure on these nerves from the baby’s movements can sometimes be misinterpreted by the brain, leading to a feeling that is similar to the urge to pass gas or a sudden, sharp pressure, rather than a typical kick felt higher up. This mechanism of pressure transmission through fluid and tissue provides the explanation for the surprising and sometimes uncomfortable feeling.

Reassurance and Timing

This phenomenon of deep pelvic movement is a common and normal part of late pregnancy, often signaling that the baby is settling into a position preparatory for birth. The sensation is most likely to peak during the late second and throughout the third trimester, especially after the process of “lightening” occurs. For first-time mothers, this descent often happens several weeks before the onset of labor, while for those who have been pregnant before, it may occur much closer to the delivery date.

The increase in pelvic pressure and these deep movements are generally harmless indicators of a growing, active baby. However, it is prudent to remain attuned to any significant changes in your body. If these deep movements are accompanied by sharp, continuous pain, vaginal bleeding, or a sudden, dramatic decrease in the baby’s overall movement patterns, you should contact your healthcare provider immediately for a full evaluation.