When Do Babies Get Real Tears When They Cry?

The observation that a newborn can wail without shedding a single drop of moisture is often surprising for new parents. This tearless crying phase is a normal and expected part of an infant’s physiological development. It reflects the gradual maturation of the lacrimal system, which produces and drains tears. Understanding this process explains why those cries, though loud, do not yet result in the streaming tears seen in older children and adults.

The Tearless Phase: Newborn Lacrimal Function

The newborn’s eyes are not entirely dry at birth, but the lacrimal glands are only equipped to produce a minimal amount of fluid for basic eye health. This continuous, low-volume production is known as basal tears, which serve to lubricate the eye and protect the cornea from debris and infection. These tears keep the eye surface moist, but they are not created in the volume needed to spill over the eyelid during crying.

Tears are generally categorized into three types: basal, reflex, and emotional. At birth, the capacity for producing both reflex and emotional tears is underdeveloped. Reflex tears, which are a flood of liquid produced in response to irritants like dust or strong odors, may occasionally be seen in small amounts, but the system is not fully activated.

The lacrimal glands are not yet mature enough to handle the sheer volume of fluid required for a visible, sustained flow down the cheeks. While a baby’s distress is real, the physiological mechanism for generating a crying-induced torrent of tears is still in its early stages of development.

The Timeline for Full Tear Production

The shift from tearless to tearful crying is a significant developmental milestone that occurs as the lacrimal glands grow and become more active. Parents typically begin to notice visible tear production sometime between two weeks and two months after birth. This transitional period marks the point when the glands start increasing their output beyond the basal level.

For many infants, a consistent flow of emotional tears—the kind that stream down the cheeks—is established around one to three months of age. This timeline can vary, but this range represents the typical developmental progression. The appearance of these visible tears is a sign that the lacrimal system is fully capable of responding to the intense muscle activity and emotional stimuli associated with crying.

Once the system is fully operational, the volume of tears produced during a strong cry is enough to overwhelm the eye’s natural drainage system, causing the fluid to overflow. This is the point when tears will visibly collect in the corner of the eye and run down the face. The maturation process is gradual, so parents may first observe only a small increase in moisture before seeing a steady flow.

Addressing Delayed or Absent Tears

In some cases, tears may seem delayed beyond the typical three-month mark, or one eye may appear excessively watery while the other does not. The most common reason for persistent tearing or apparent tear absence is a condition called congenital dacryostenosis, or a blocked tear duct. This condition affects up to 20% of newborns and occurs when the nasolacrimal duct, which drains tears from the eye into the nose, has not fully opened.

Because the tears cannot drain properly, they back up, causing pooling in the corner of the eye and often leading to a sticky or yellowish discharge. In most infants, this blockage is benign and resolves spontaneously without intervention. Approximately 70% of cases clear up by three months of age, and over 90% resolve by the child’s first birthday.

A healthcare provider may recommend a gentle massage technique, sometimes called “milking” the tear duct, to help open the blockage. Parents should consult a pediatrician if the blockage persists past three months, or if they observe signs of infection. Symptoms like persistent redness, swelling, or a thick, purulent discharge around the eye or nose area require medical attention, as they may indicate a secondary infection.