What to Do When Having Contractions at Home

When contractions begin, they signal the start of a journey that will end with meeting your baby. For most people, the initial phase of labor, known as early or latent labor, occurs entirely at home. This stage is characterized by contractions that begin the process of cervical change, but they are generally manageable and allow for conversation and movement. The time spent at home is an opportunity to conserve energy and manage discomfort in a familiar, comforting environment before transitioning to a hospital or birth center.

Distinguishing True Labor From Practice Contractions

The uterus practices for labor throughout the third trimester by performing uncoordinated contractions, often called Braxton Hicks contractions. These practice contractions are typically irregular in timing and duration, and they may be felt primarily as a tightening sensation focused in one area of the abdomen. They will usually fade away or stop entirely if you change your activity level, such as walking around or lying down, or if you hydrate.

True early labor contractions, by contrast, are progressive and follow a distinct pattern that will not stop with rest or hydration. These contractions begin to demonstrate increasing regularity, become noticeably stronger over time, and last longer. They often start feeling like menstrual cramps or a dull ache in the lower back or abdomen, but they become more intense and rhythmic. As a practical test, try drinking a large glass of water or taking a warm bath; if the contractions persist and intensify, they are likely the start of true labor.

True labor contractions work in a coordinated fashion, typically starting at the top of the uterus and moving downward, signaling that the cervix is beginning to thin and open. They generally last between 30 and 70 seconds and become more frequent as labor advances. If you find yourself unable to talk or walk through the peak of a contraction, you are likely in the progressive phase of labor.

Comfort Measures for Early Labor

Managing early labor at home focuses on non-pharmacological methods to promote comfort and relaxation, which can help conserve energy for active labor. Movement is beneficial during this phase, as changing positions can help your body and baby work with gravity. Walking, gently swaying, or slow dancing with a partner can provide distraction and relief, while sitting on a birth ball allows for gentle pelvic rocking.

Hydrotherapy, through a warm shower or bath, is a highly effective way to soothe discomfort. Directing a stream of warm water onto your lower back or abdomen in the shower can be especially relieving during a contraction. You can also apply localized heat or cold packs to the lower back or hips, which may help mitigate pain signals through the skin.

Breathing and relaxation techniques aid in coping with the intensity of contractions. Focused, rhythmic breathing helps you remain calm and prevents muscle tension throughout your body. A support person can also apply counter-pressure or massage to your lower back, especially if you are experiencing back labor. Maintain your strength by staying well-hydrated and consuming small, easily digestible snacks for sustained energy.

The 5-1-1 Guideline and Communicating With Your Provider

Knowing when to leave home is addressed by the 5-1-1 guideline, which serves as a benchmark for timing the transition to a hospital or birth center. This means contractions are occurring approximately five minutes apart, with each contraction lasting for a full minute, and this pattern has been consistent for at least one hour. This timing usually indicates that labor is advancing from the early phase to the more active phase.

The 5-1-1 rule is a general guideline, and you should always follow the specific instructions provided by your healthcare provider. Your provider may offer different criteria based on your specific medical history, the distance to the facility, or whether this is your first birth. Always contact your care team once your contractions begin to fit a regular, intensifying pattern, even if you do not yet meet the 5-1-1 criteria.

Certain symptoms require immediate communication with your provider, regardless of how often contractions are occurring. These “red flags” include:

  • A sudden gush or steady trickle of fluid from the vagina, which may signal that your water has broken.
  • Heavy vaginal bleeding, which is more than light spotting or bloody show.
  • A significant decrease in fetal movement.
  • Unremitting, severe pain that does not subside between contractions.

Necessary Preparations and Logistics

Once contractions become regular, it is time to finalize all necessary preparations for leaving home. First, confirm that your pre-packed “go-bag” is accessible and contains all essential paperwork, such as insurance information and your birth plan. This bag should include items for yourself, your partner, and the baby for the hospital stay.

Ensure that your transportation plan is confirmed and ready to be executed, and that your support person is notified and prepared. The car seat must be properly installed in your vehicle, as it is required by law for the ride home and you will not be permitted to leave the facility without one. Finally, confirm the best route to your hospital or birth center and account for potential traffic or time-of-day delays.