What to Do If Someone Is Making Unfamiliar Noises While Sleeping

Unfamiliar noises from a sleeping person can cause immediate alarm. The primary concern is the sleeper’s safety and well-being. This guide offers a clear, step-by-step approach to distinguish between minor disturbances and true emergencies, and take appropriate action.

The Immediate Assessment of Vitals and Position

The first step in any alarming sleep situation is to approach the individual calmly and attempt a gentle assessment of their condition. A quiet verbal cue, like speaking their name, should precede any physical contact to gauge their level of responsiveness. If they do not stir, try a gentle nudge on the shoulder, which is often enough to rouse someone from a light sleep state.

While observing for a response, immediately check for breathing by watching the chest and abdomen. The rise and fall should be regular and relatively quiet, indicating air is moving freely through the respiratory system. Simultaneously, observe the color of their skin, specifically the lips and nail beds, as a bluish tint, known as cyanosis, is a serious sign of oxygen deprivation.

The person’s sleeping position can be a mechanical factor contributing to the noise, often due to the tongue or soft palate obstructing the airway. If the person is lying directly on their back, gently rolling them onto their side can sometimes resolve a partial airway obstruction. This slight positional change can open the throat and may immediately quiet the unfamiliar sound.

Differentiating Benign Sounds from Alarming Noises

Understanding the nature of the sound is necessary for determining the next course of action. Benign sleep sounds are typically rhythmic and continuous, such as simple snoring caused by the vibration of relaxed throat tissues. Other non-concerning noises include sleep talking, or somniloquy, and soft mouth or humming sounds that occur frequently during lighter stages of sleep.

Concerning but non-emergency sounds are often loud and chronic, indicating a persistent issue that warrants a medical consultation, not an emergency response. These include loud, disruptive snoring, bruxism (teeth grinding), or the rhythmic jerking sounds associated with periodic limb movement disorder. These noises suggest a sleep-related disorder.

Alarming noises, conversely, are irregular and suggest a severe disruption in airflow. A sudden, loud gasp or snort that follows a period of complete silence is a hallmark sign of a potential apneic event, where breathing has paused. High-pitched, wheezing sounds known as stridor indicate a significant obstruction in the upper airway, while a wet, rattling gurgling noise suggests fluid, such as vomit or secretions, is present in the airway, both requiring immediate attention.

Urgent Warning Signs Requiring Emergency Intervention

Certain signs accompanying unfamiliar sleep noises move the situation from a possible sleep disorder to a genuine medical emergency requiring an immediate call to emergency services. The most significant red flag is the complete cessation of breathing that lasts longer than 10 to 15 seconds. This prolonged silence followed by a desperate gasp indicates a profound lack of oxygen reaching the brain and body. The appearance of central cyanosis mandates immediate emergency medical intervention.

Additionally, if the person is difficult to rouse or remains completely unresponsive despite vigorous verbal and physical stimulation, this represents an acute change in mental status. Signs of acute distress, such as flailing, visible panic, or the universal hand signal for choking, also require an emergency response.

While waiting for professional help to arrive, the observer should take immediate steps to support the person. If the individual is unconscious and breathing, placing them in the recovery position—lying on their side with the top leg bent—helps keep the airway open and prevents aspiration of fluids. If the person has stopped breathing and you are trained, initiating cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) is the measure, while the Heimlich maneuver is reserved for conscious individuals who are actively choking.

Follow-Up Steps for Recurring Non-Emergency Sounds

If the unfamiliar sounds were alarming but did not meet the threshold for an emergency intervention, or if they are recurring non-emergency noises, a consultation with a healthcare provider is the next step. To prepare for this visit, begin keeping a sleep journal that records the date, time, duration, and specific type of noise observed. This documentation can provide the medical team with valuable diagnostic information.

The primary care physician will likely conduct an initial examination and may refer the person to a specialist, such as an Ear, Nose, and Throat (ENT) doctor or a sleep specialist. The sleep specialist can evaluate the potential for conditions like obstructive sleep apnea. The most definitive diagnostic tool is a polysomnography, commonly known as a sleep study, which monitors brain activity, oxygen levels, heart rate, and breathing patterns during sleep to establish a diagnosis and determine severity.