Is It More Painful for a Man to Pass a Kidney Stone Than a Woman?

Kidney stones are small, hard deposits of mineral and acid salts that crystallize within the urinary tract. They cause one of the most intense forms of pain known to medicine when they attempt to pass from the kidney. This article explores the universal mechanisms of kidney stone pain and examines the anatomical and physiological factors that may influence how men and women experience this condition.

The Universal Experience of Kidney Stone Pain

The excruciating nature of kidney stone pain, medically termed renal colic, is primarily caused by obstruction. Pain occurs when a stone becomes lodged in the ureter, the narrow tube connecting the kidney to the bladder. This blockage prevents the normal flow of urine, causing a rapid and painful buildup of pressure within the kidney.

This increased pressure, known as hydronephrosis, stretches the organ’s capsule and signals intense discomfort. The body responds to the obstruction by initiating forceful, involuntary spasms of the ureteral smooth muscle, attempting to push the stone along. These powerful, wave-like contractions are the source of the characteristic colicky pain that radiates from the flank down toward the groin. The intensity of this pain is directly related to the degree of obstruction and the resulting muscle spasm, not the size of the stone itself. This mechanism is consistent across all patients, establishing a universal baseline of severe pain for both men and women.

Anatomical Factors Influencing Stone Passage

While the mechanism of pain initiation is the same for everyone, anatomical differences between sexes can subtly influence the stone’s final journey. The ureters, which transport urine from the kidneys, are roughly 25 to 30 centimeters in length and three to four millimeters in diameter in both men and women. Therefore, the main pathway for the stone does not present a significant length or width difference.

The divergence occurs in the pelvis and the final exit point. In males, the ureter passes close to the vas deferens and the seminal vesicles before entering the bladder. The stone must then pass through the male urethra, which is significantly longer, measuring approximately 18 to 20 centimeters. In females, the ureter travels behind the ovaries and near the cervix. The female urethra is much shorter, typically only three to five centimeters long. These differences in surrounding pelvic structures can affect the precise location of referred pain and may influence the likelihood of a stone becoming transiently lodged in the final stages of its passage.

Addressing the Gender Pain Comparison

Clinical studies attempting to compare the subjective pain intensity of renal colic between men and women do not support the idea that one sex experiences objectively worse pain. When measured using standardized tools like the Visual Analog Scale (VAS), the acute pain scores reported by men and women presenting to the emergency department are often comparable. The difference in experience tends to manifest in the type of referred pain and the overall impact on quality of life.

Men frequently report pain radiating into the testicles, following the path of the nerve supply. Women are more likely to experience pain that localizes in the lower abdomen or pelvis, sometimes leading to a misdiagnosis of a gynecological issue. Furthermore, women are clinically more prone to developing an associated urinary tract infection or urosepsis, which can complicate the stone passage. The clinical consensus is that the pain is equally severe for both sexes, though the presentation and associated complications may vary.

Managing Acute Kidney Stone Pain

The immediate goal of acute kidney stone management is to control the intense pain and facilitate the stone’s passage. Nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs), such as diclofenac or ketorolac, are the preferred first-line treatment. These medications reduce inflammation and decrease the production of prostaglandins, which drive the painful ureteral smooth muscle spasms.

For stones larger than five millimeters, or those located in the lower portion of the ureter, alpha-blockers may be prescribed. Medications like tamsulosin relax the muscles in the ureter walls, helping to widen the pathway for easier stone passage. Adequate hydration is recommended to help flush the urinary system, provided there is no complete obstruction causing a dangerous buildup of fluid.

If the stone is too large to pass naturally (typically exceeding ten millimeters) or if the pain cannot be controlled, surgical intervention becomes necessary. Procedures such as ureteroscopy retrieve or fragment the stone with a scope. Shockwave lithotripsy uses focused sound waves to break the stone into smaller pieces, providing definitive relief.