How to Use a Tampon for Beginners

Using a tampon can feel intimidating when first learning, but it is a safe and effective way to manage menstrual flow. A tampon is a small cylinder of absorbent material inserted into the vagina, where it collects menstrual fluid before it leaves the body. Once placed correctly, a tampon allows for greater freedom of movement and should not be felt at all. Learning the proper technique for insertion, removal, and product selection will help you feel confident using this internal menstrual product.

Selecting the Right Product

The first step for a beginner is choosing a product that maximizes comfort. Tampons typically come with an applicator, a small tube that guides the absorbent material into place. Many people find plastic applicators easiest to use initially because their smooth, rounded tips glide more comfortably than cardboard versions.

The most important selection factor is the tampon’s absorbency, labeled by terms like “light,” “regular,” and “super.” Absorbency indicates the amount of fluid the tampon can hold, not its physical size. Always select the lowest absorbency that is effective for your flow to minimize potential risks and maintain comfort. Beginners often start with ‘light’ or ‘regular’ absorbency.

Since menstrual flow varies throughout the cycle, you may need different absorbency levels on different days. For example, you might use a ‘regular’ tampon on a heavier day and switch to a ‘light’ absorbency toward the end of your period. Matching the absorbency ensures the tampon is saturated within the recommended wear time but not so quickly that you experience leakage.

Comprehensive Insertion Guide

Before handling the product, always wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water to prevent bacteria transfer. Unwrap the tampon just before insertion and quickly check that the removal string is securely attached. Finding a comfortable position is important, as relaxing your pelvic floor muscles will make the process smoother.

You can sit on the toilet with knees spread, stand with one foot propped up on a stable surface, or slightly squat. For tampons with an applicator, hold the barrel at the anti-slip grip with your thumb and middle finger, ensuring the removal string hangs freely. Guide the tip of the applicator toward the vaginal opening, which is located between the urethra and the anus.

The vagina is angled back toward the tailbone, so aim the tampon toward your lower back, not straight up. Gently slide the outer tube of the applicator into the vagina until your fingers on the grip touch your labia. This indicates the applicator is far enough inside to correctly place the tampon.

Next, use your index finger to push the inner tube, or plunger, completely into the outer tube. This action pushes the absorbent material out of the applicator and positions it high in the vaginal canal. Once the plunger is fully depressed, hold the grip steady and gently slide the entire applicator out of your body, leaving the removal string hanging outside. If inserted correctly, you should not feel the tampon while moving, sitting, or walking. If you feel discomfort or pressure, the tampon is likely not inserted far enough and should be removed and replaced with a new one.

Understanding Removal and Timing

The maximum recommended duration for wearing a tampon is eight hours; you must change it at least that often, even with a very light flow. The typical changing range is between four and eight hours, depending on the heaviness of your flow. Leakage or blood on the string indicates the tampon is saturated and needs immediate removal.

To prepare for removal, return to a relaxed position, such as sitting on the toilet. Relaxing the pelvic muscles is key, and taking a deep breath can help ease tension. Gently pull the removal string at the same angle as the tampon was inserted. It should slide out smoothly since it has expanded and been lubricated by menstrual fluid.

If the tampon feels dry or causes resistance upon removal, consider using a lower absorbency product next time. After removal, wrap the tampon in toilet paper or its original wrapper and dispose of it in a waste bin, as tampons should never be flushed. If you have trouble locating the string, a gentle cough or bearing down with your abdominal muscles can help move the tampon lower.

Addressing Common Concerns and Safety

Experiencing leakage indicates the tampon is saturated, meaning you need to change it more frequently or select a higher absorbency. If the tampon is difficult to remove or feels dry after four to eight hours, switch to a lower absorbency to better match your flow.

It is important to be aware of Toxic Shock Syndrome (TSS), a rare but serious condition caused by the toxins of Staphylococcus aureus bacteria. Tampon use has been associated with TSS, especially when highly absorbent products are left in place for extended periods. Symptoms of TSS can appear suddenly and include a high fever, vomiting, diarrhea, and a rash resembling a sunburn.

The primary way to reduce the risk of TSS is by consistently changing your tampon within the recommended four to eight hours and always choosing the lowest necessary absorbency. Never leave a tampon in for longer than eight hours. If you experience any symptoms of TSS while menstruating, remove the tampon immediately and seek medical attention.