How to Make Yourself Poop When It Won’t Come Out

Functional constipation is a common digestive issue, typically diagnosed when a person experiences fewer than three bowel movements per week, hard stools, or a persistent sensation of incomplete evacuation without an underlying anatomical cause. This condition impacts daily comfort. Understanding immediate relief steps and long-term preventative measures is helpful for effective management.

Immediate Techniques for Relief

Adjusting your posture on the toilet can aid in the immediate passage of stool. The body is designed to defecate in a squatting position, which helps straighten the anorectal angle. Using a small stool or specialized device to elevate the feet above the hips mimics this squatting posture, relaxing the puborectalis muscle. This position reduces straining, allowing for an easier bowel movement.

Gentle abdominal massage can help stimulate gut movement by following the natural path of the large intestine. The “I Love U” massage technique traces the colon’s path on the abdomen. This systematic movement encourages the stool to move through the colon toward the rectum.

Immediate changes in fluid intake can soften hard stool for easier passage. Drinking warm liquids, such as hot water or tea, can help stimulate a bowel movement. Prune juice is effective because it contains sorbitol, a sugar alcohol that draws water into the colon through an osmotic effect, softening the stool. For adults, starting with a half-cup serving (about four ounces) of prune juice in the morning is recommended.

Over-the-counter aids function differently and should be used cautiously. Stool softeners, like docusate sodium, work by increasing the amount of water absorbed into the stool, making it easier to pass, but they can take 24 to 72 hours to work. Stimulant laxatives, such as those containing senna or bisacodyl, act more quickly by causing the muscles of the intestine to contract. However, they can lead to cramping and are not meant for long-term use due to the risk of dependency.

Common Causes of Stool Retention

Consistently ignoring the natural urge to defecate is a cause of stool retention. When the urge is suppressed, water continues to be absorbed from the stool, making it harder and more difficult to pass later. This can create a cycle where painful bowel movements lead to further withholding, worsening the problem.

Insufficient fluid intake contributes to hard stools. The large intestine absorbs water, and if the body is dehydrated, it pulls too much water from the stool. Similarly, a lack of dietary fiber means there is less bulk in the stool to retain water, which is necessary for creating a soft consistency.

Certain medications can slow the movement of the digestive tract, contributing to constipation. Opioid pain medications are a common cause, as they affect the nerves in the gut, slowing down intestinal movement. Other medications that can have this effect include iron supplements, some antidepressants, and calcium channel blockers used for blood pressure.

Physical inactivity reduces the efficiency of the digestive system. A sedentary lifestyle decreases gut motility, which is the muscle contractions (peristalsis) that propel waste through the intestines. Without this physical stimulation, the movement of stool slows down, allowing for more water absorption and difficulty in passing the waste.

Long-Term Dietary and Lifestyle Prevention

Increasing dietary fiber intake is essential for preventing future episodes of constipation. Adults should aim for a total dietary fiber intake of 25 to 30 grams per day from food sources. Fiber is categorized into two main types that support regular bowel movements.

Fiber Types

  • Soluble fiber dissolves in water, creating a gel-like substance that helps soften the stool.
  • Sources of soluble fiber include oats, apples, and beans.
  • Insoluble fiber, often called roughage, does not dissolve and instead adds bulk and draws water into the stool.
  • This helps to speed up the passage of food waste, and good sources include whole grains, vegetables, and the skins of fruits.

Consistent hydration throughout the day works with fiber to maintain soft stools. Fiber needs water to perform its bulking and softening functions, and without adequate fluid, high fiber intake can worsen constipation. Drinking water regularly helps ensure the colon has enough moisture to keep the stool soft and lubricated.

Regular physical activity stimulates the gut. Exercise enhances peristalsis, the wave-like muscle contractions in the intestines that move waste along the digestive tract. Even moderate activities, such as a brisk walk, can help tone the digestive muscles and improve gut motility.

Establishing a consistent bowel routine helps maintain regularity. The gastrocolic reflex, which stimulates movement in the colon, is often strongest shortly after waking or after a meal. Attempting to have a bowel movement at the same time each day can help condition the body to maintain a predictable schedule.

When Difficulty Passing Stool Becomes a Medical Emergency

While most constipation can be managed with home remedies, certain symptoms require immediate medical attention. Severe abdominal pain that does not resolve, especially if accompanied by vomiting, can indicate a bowel obstruction. The inability to pass gas along with constipation is another red flag suggesting a potential blockage in the intestinal tract.

The presence of blood in the stool requires medical evaluation. Bright red blood may indicate a tear or hemorrhoid near the anus, but dark or tarry stool suggests bleeding higher up in the digestive tract. Sudden, unexplained weight loss or constipation that alternates unexpectedly with episodes of diarrhea also needs professional investigation.

Fecal impaction is a complication of chronic constipation where a large, hard mass of stool becomes lodged in the rectum or colon. This condition prevents the passage of normal stool and may cause liquid stool to leak around the blockage, a symptom known as paradoxical diarrhea. If constipation persists for longer than seven days despite using over-the-counter treatments and lifestyle changes, or if you suspect an impaction, seek clinical intervention.