How to Make Your Lower Back Stop Hurting

Most lower back pain improves significantly within a few weeks using a combination of movement, simple exercises, and changes to how you sit and sleep. The key is staying active rather than resting in bed, which can actually make things worse. Here’s what works, starting with what you can do right now.

Quick Relief With Ice and Heat

If your back pain started in the last day or two, cold therapy helps reduce inflammation. Apply an ice pack wrapped in a cloth for 10 to 15 minutes, then wait at least 2 hours before applying it again. After the first 48 to 72 hours, switch to heat. A heating pad or warm towel for 15 to 20 minutes at a time relaxes tight muscles and increases blood flow to the area. Some people find alternating between the two works best once the initial acute phase passes.

Why Sitting Makes It Worse

A major driver of lower back pain is prolonged sitting. Your psoas muscles, which run from your lower spine through your hips and attach to your thigh bones, shorten and tighten when you sit for hours. These muscles are part of your deep core and connect your upper body to your lower body. When they get chronically tight, they pull your pelvis forward and compress your lower spine, creating that stiff, achy feeling right at the base of your back.

Breaking up sitting time matters more than you might expect. Walking more than 100 minutes a day is associated with a 23% lower risk of developing chronic low back pain compared to walking less than 78 minutes, based on a large study covered by Harvard Health. You don’t need to walk fast, and walking beyond about 125 minutes a day doesn’t add much extra benefit. Even splitting that time into several short walks throughout the day helps keep your spine mobile and your supporting muscles active.

Three Core Exercises That Protect Your Spine

Spine biomechanics researcher Stuart McGill developed three exercises specifically designed to build stability around your lower back without putting it under additional stress. They’re simple, require no equipment, and target the muscles that act as a natural brace for your spine.

The Curl-Up

Lie on your back with one knee bent and the other leg straight. Slide your hands under your lower back to maintain its natural slight arch. Lift only your head a few inches off the ground, keeping your chin tucked toward your throat. Hold for 10 seconds, then lower back down. The goal is zero movement in your lower back throughout the exercise. This is not a crunch. The range of motion is small on purpose.

The Bird Dog

Start on your hands and knees with your back in its natural position (a slight arch, not completely flat). Extend one leg straight behind you while raising the opposite arm in front, keeping your lower back completely still. Hold for 10 seconds, return to the starting position, then switch sides. If your back sways or rotates, you’ve gone too far.

The Side Plank

Lie on your side with your knees bent. Prop your upper body on your elbow and place your free hand on the opposite shoulder. Lift your hips so only your knee and forearm support your weight. Hold for 10 seconds. The bent-knee version is a good starting point. As you get stronger, you can extend your legs for a full side plank.

Start with a few repetitions of each and build gradually. These exercises work best as a daily habit rather than something you do only when pain flares up.

Fix How You Sleep

Your sleeping position can either relieve or worsen lower back pain overnight. The Mayo Clinic recommends specific pillow placements depending on how you sleep.

  • Side sleepers: Draw your knees up slightly toward your chest and place a pillow between your legs. This keeps your spine, pelvis, and hips aligned and takes pressure off your lower back. A full-length body pillow works well here.
  • Back sleepers: Place a pillow under your knees to help your back muscles relax and maintain the natural curve of your spine. A small rolled towel under your waist can add extra support.
  • Stomach sleepers: This position is the hardest on your back. If you can’t switch, place a pillow under your hips and lower stomach to reduce strain.

Set Up Your Chair Properly

If you work at a desk, your chair setup has an outsized effect on your back. According to federal ergonomic guidelines, the seat height should place the highest point of the seat just below your kneecap when standing next to it. When seated, you should be able to fit a clenched fist (about 2 inches) between the front edge of the seat and your calves. If you can’t, the seat is too deep and will push you into a slouched position.

The backrest matters most for your lower back. Adjust it forward or backward and up or down so it fits snugly into the natural hollow of your lower spine. If your chair doesn’t have adjustable lumbar support, a small rolled towel or cushion placed in that hollow does the same job. The goal is to let the chair hold your spine’s natural curve so your muscles don’t have to work constantly to keep you upright.

Over-the-Counter Pain Relief

When you need medication, anti-inflammatory drugs like ibuprofen or naproxen have the most favorable balance of benefit and risk for back pain, according to guidelines published in The BMJ. Use the lowest dose that helps and for the shortest time you need it.

Acetaminophen (Tylenol), despite being widely used, has moderate to high certainty evidence showing it is not effective for lower back pain. Opioids also show poor effectiveness for this type of pain and carry serious risks. The American College of Physicians recommends trying non-drug approaches first in most cases, with options like massage, acupuncture, spinal manipulation, and tai chi all showing some benefit, though the evidence for each varies in strength.

Stretch Your Hip Flexors

Because tight hip flexors are so commonly involved in lower back pain, stretching them can provide noticeable relief. A simple half-kneeling stretch works well: kneel on one knee with the other foot flat in front of you, then gently shift your weight forward until you feel a stretch in the front of your hip on the kneeling side. Hold for 20 to 30 seconds per side. Do this a few times a day, especially after long periods of sitting.

This directly counteracts the shortening that happens in your psoas muscles during sitting. Over time, restoring normal length to these muscles reduces the forward pull on your lower spine that contributes to pain and stiffness.

Warning Signs That Need Emergency Care

Most lower back pain is mechanical and resolves with the strategies above. But certain symptoms indicate a serious condition called cauda equina syndrome, where the bundle of nerves at the base of your spinal cord becomes compressed. This requires emergency treatment to prevent permanent damage. Go to an emergency room if you experience back pain along with any of these:

  • Sudden difficulty urinating or loss of bladder control
  • Loss of bowel control
  • Numbness, tingling, or burning sensations in your inner thighs, buttocks, or the backs of your legs
  • Rapidly worsening leg weakness or difficulty walking

These symptoms can develop suddenly or over days. The combination of back pain with bladder or bowel changes is the most critical signal that something beyond a muscle strain is going on.