How to Go to Sleep With Someone Snoring

The constant, loud disruption of a partner’s snoring often leads to sleep deprivation for the listener. This lack of restorative sleep can result in daytime fatigue, reduced concentration, and mood swings. Chronic sleep loss is also associated with more severe health concerns, including an increased risk of high blood pressure and heart issues. Finding a way to minimize the impact of snoring is important for maintaining both individual health and the relationship. Several practical strategies exist to reclaim the quiet needed for deep sleep.

Personal Sound Barriers

Devices worn by the listener offer a direct method for blocking disruptive sound transmission. Foam earplugs, which are inexpensive and widely available, work by expanding to fill the ear canal and physically block sound waves. To maximize effectiveness, the earplug must first be compressed into a thin cylinder. The outer ear should be pulled up and back to straighten the ear canal before insertion, ensuring the plug expands deep inside the canal to create a tight acoustic seal.

Moldable earplugs, typically made of wax or silicone putty, create a seal over the ear canal opening rather than being inserted deep inside. These are often favored by side sleepers, as they conform to the outer ear shape and are less likely to cause pressure against the pillow. Specialized noise-canceling headphones or soft headbands are another option. These devices often use active noise cancellation to neutralize low-frequency hums or can play pre-loaded, soothing sounds directly into the ear.

Utilizing Sound Masking Techniques

Environmental sound machines offer an alternative approach by employing sound masking. This technique uses a consistent, non-disruptive noise to obscure the inconsistent, jarring sounds of snoring. The brain is less likely to register a sudden noise, such as a loud snore, when a steady ambient sound is present. This helps prevent the listener’s brain from fully waking up in response to the disturbance.

White noise is the most recognized form, characterized by equal power across all audible frequencies, sounding like static or a fan. Pink noise is similar but reduces the intensity of higher frequencies, resulting in a more soothing sound profile, resembling steady rainfall or wind. Brown noise further emphasizes lower frequencies, creating a deeper, more resonant rumble, like a strong waterfall or distant thunder. Placing the sound machine closer to the listener’s head, or strategically between the listener and the snorer, optimizes the masking effect.

Strategic Sleep Positioning

Adjusting the physical positions of both the snorer and the listener can significantly reduce the noise impact. For the snorer, moving from sleeping on the back (supine position) to the side is the most effective positional change. When a person sleeps on their back, gravity pulls the tongue and soft tissues of the throat backward, narrowing the airway and causing the vibrations that result in snoring.

Side sleeping counteracts gravity, helping to keep the airway open and reducing the likelihood of soft tissue collapse. To encourage side sleeping, a body pillow can be used for support, or a positional training method, like sewing a tennis ball into the back of pajamas, can be employed. For the listener, turning their back toward the snorer reduces the direct transmission of sound to the ear. If the noise remains intolerable, temporary relocation to a separate sleeping space ensures a full night of rest.

Immediate Interventions for the Snorer

Several non-medical, temporary measures can be applied directly to the snorer to minimize sound production. Ensuring the snorer is well-hydrated throughout the day is effective, as dehydration causes mucus in the nasal passages and soft palate to become stickier and more likely to vibrate. Drinking plenty of fluids helps keep these secretions thin, promoting smoother airflow.

Over-the-counter nasal strips or external nasal dilators can be applied to the bridge of the nose to physically lift and widen the nasal passages. This improves nasal airflow, which may reduce the need for mouth breathing and lessen the intensity of snoring. Using a humidifier in the bedroom also helps by adding moisture to the air, soothing dryness or irritation in the nasal and throat tissues that contribute to snoring.