How to Get a Baby to Move Out of an Uncomfortable Position

When an infant is fussy, unable to settle, or holds their body at an awkward angle, it signals a need for a positional adjustment. Babies communicate discomfort through physical cues, such as constant squirming, arching the back, or an inability to get comfortable. Addressing this quickly and gently is important, but intervention must always prioritize the infant’s safety and ability to breathe freely. The goal is to safely restore a neutral alignment that supports the baby’s developing spine and airways.

Adjusting Position While Sleeping or Resting

Repositioning a baby lying on a flat, firm surface, such as a crib mattress or bassinet, requires strict adherence to safe sleep guidelines. Infants must always be placed on their backs for all sleep times to minimize the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). The sleep surface should be bare, free of loose bedding, pillows, bumpers, or soft objects that could obstruct breathing.

If a baby consistently favors turning their head to one side, which can lead to positional plagiocephaly (flat spot) or torticollis (tight neck muscles), gentle intervention is necessary. Once the baby is soundly asleep on their back, a parent can carefully turn the head to the non-preferred side to alternate pressure points. To encourage active neck turning during waking hours, parents can position the crib so the baby must look away from the wall to see the door or a window.

For a baby who is squirming but not yet asleep, a technique known as a “log roll” can facilitate a comfortable adjustment without twisting the body. This involves keeping the baby’s head, neck, and torso in a straight line, gently turning the entire body as a single unit onto one side, and then continuing the movement until the baby is settled back on their back. Parents should not use sleep positioners, wedges, or rolled blankets in the crib, as these items pose a suffocation risk.

Safe Repositioning in Carriers and Car Seats

Confined devices like car seats and carriers present a challenge, as an improper position can lead to positional asphyxia, where the chin slumps to the chest and restricts the airway. Newborns are vulnerable because their neck muscles lack the strength to lift the head against gravity. The goal is to ensure the baby’s chin remains up and away from the chest at all times.

To correct slumping, first check the harness system, which maintains proper posture. The harness straps must be snug enough that a parent cannot pinch any slack fabric vertically at the baby’s shoulder. For a rear-facing infant, the shoulder straps must originate from a slot that is at or just below the baby’s shoulders.

The crotch buckle is important for preventing a baby from sliding down and slumping. It should be located in the slot closest to the baby’s body without being positioned directly underneath them. Parents should only use head and body inserts that came with the specific car seat model, as aftermarket products are not crash-tested and can push the baby’s head forward into an unsafe position.

In soft carriers and slings, the baby’s face must always be “visible and kissable,” meaning it should be high on the parent’s chest and unobstructed by fabric or the parent’s body. If the baby is slouching or curled into a C-shape in the carrier, the parent must stop, remove the baby, and reposition the carrier to create a more upright, supported posture. A certified Child Passenger Safety Technician (CPST) can provide assistance to ensure all equipment is used correctly.

Addressing Discomfort from Internal Causes

Sometimes, a baby’s discomfort is caused by internal physiological factors, such as trapped gas, reflux, or digestive upset, rather than an external positional issue. Physical manipulation and specific holds can help relieve pressure and encourage the passage of gas. These techniques are needed when a baby is squirming, pulling their knees to their chest, or exhibiting signs of abdominal pain.

Burping is a primary method for relieving discomfort caused by swallowed air, which can be done in several positions. One method involves holding the baby upright over the shoulder, supporting the bottom while gently patting or rubbing the back. Alternatively, a parent can sit the baby on their lap, leaning them slightly forward, and supporting the chin and chest with one hand while patting the back with the other.

For lower trapped gas, a gentle tummy massage can be beneficial, always moving in a clockwise direction to follow the path of the digestive system. Parents can also perform the “bicycle legs” exercise while the baby is on their back, gently pushing the knees toward the abdomen to apply mild internal pressure. The “colic carry” or “football hold” involves carrying the baby face-down along the parent’s forearm, with the head supported in the crook of the elbow, which applies soothing pressure to the belly.

Signs That Indicate Immediate Medical Attention

While most positional discomfort can be remedied at home with simple adjustments, certain signs indicate a serious issue requiring immediate medical assessment. Any change in the baby’s color is a red flag, especially if the lips, tongue, or skin appear blue, gray, or mottled. This signals a lack of oxygen, which may be related to an obstructed airway or a cardiopulmonary issue.

Difficulty breathing is a medical emergency. Parents should look for symptoms such as rapid, shallow breathing, flaring of the nostrils, or noticeable chest wall retractions where the skin pulls in around the ribs with each breath. If the baby is lethargic, difficult to rouse, or becomes unresponsive, immediate medical attention is necessary. Persistent, inconsolable crying that lasts for hours or is accompanied by vomiting or fever also warrants a call to the pediatrician or emergency services.