How to Respond to Delusions in Dementia

Delusions in dementia are false beliefs that feel very real to the person experiencing them, even when presented with evidence to the contrary. These can be challenging for both the individual with dementia and their caregivers, who often struggle with how to respond effectively. This article offers practical guidance for caregivers navigating the complexities of delusions in dementia.

Understanding Delusions in Dementia

Delusions are firmly held false beliefs not based in reality, a common symptom for individuals living with dementia. For example, someone might believe their belongings have been stolen when they have simply misplaced them, or that a loved one is an imposter. While delusions involve false beliefs, hallucinations involve false perceptions, such as seeing or hearing things that are not present. If a person sees bugs that aren’t there (hallucination) and then believes they are part of a plot, that becomes a delusion.

These experiences arise due to brain changes caused by dementia, affecting a person’s ability to interpret information and form logical conclusions. Memory loss also contributes, as individuals might forget where they placed an item and then believe it was stolen. Other contributing factors include poor eyesight or hearing, physical illnesses like infections, medication side effects, or changes in environment and routine. Delusions can occur at any stage of dementia, though they are more common as the condition progresses and are particularly frequent in Lewy body dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, and vascular dementia.

Core Principles for Responding to Delusions

When responding to delusions, remember these beliefs feel real to the person with dementia. Attempting to reason or argue with them is ineffective and distressing. Instead, a compassionate approach focuses on validation, reassurance, and redirection. Validating their feelings acknowledges their reality without agreeing with the delusion itself. For instance, saying, “That sounds very upsetting,” addresses their emotion rather than the content of their false belief.

Focusing on the emotion behind the delusion is more productive than confronting it directly. If someone believes their money has been stolen, the underlying emotion might be fear or loss. Reassuring them of their safety and comfort can help de-escalate distress. Gently redirecting their attention towards a different topic or activity can shift their focus away from the distressing thought. This approach helps maintain emotional well-being and reduces agitation, fostering a more peaceful interaction.

Practical Strategies for Common Delusions

If a person with dementia believes someone has stolen their money or possessions, it often stems from misplacing items due to memory loss. Instead of arguing, validate their concern by saying, “It must be frustrating not to find your money,” and then offer to help them look, perhaps in a familiar, agreed-upon location. Having spare essential items like glasses or keys can also help reduce the impact of misplaced belongings.

When an individual repeatedly expresses a desire to “go home,” this often signifies a deeper need for comfort, security, or familiarity rather than a literal request. Responding with reassurance, such as “You are safe here,” is more helpful than explaining they are already home. Validate their feeling by saying, “It sounds like you miss home,” then gently redirect their attention to a calming activity, like looking at old photo albums or engaging their senses with familiar music or a warm drink. Observing patterns in these requests can help caregivers proactively engage the person in enjoyable activities to prevent distress.

In situations where a person believes a loved one is an imposter or is trying to harm them, this often arises from brain changes affecting recognition and trust. Therapeutic fibbing, or “white lies,” can be a compassionate approach, gently bending the truth to alleviate distress and maintain emotional comfort. For example, if a parent doesn’t recognize their adult child, instead of insisting on your identity, you might say, “I’m here to help you,” focusing on providing care and reassurance. This approach prioritizes the person’s peace of mind over factual accuracy, aiming to prevent agitation and maintain a positive connection. Environmental factors such as shadows, noise, clutter, or changes in routine can also trigger or intensify delusions, so ensuring a calm, well-lit, and familiar environment can be beneficial.

When to Seek Professional Guidance

Seeking professional guidance is important when delusions lead to unsafe behaviors, cause significant distress for the person with dementia, or result in caregiver burnout. If delusions involve paranoia leading to hiding possessions, frequently calling emergency services, or expressing fear of harm, consult a doctor. A sudden onset or worsening of delusions could indicate an underlying medical issue, such as an infection or medication side effect, requiring immediate medical evaluation.

Healthcare professionals, including general practitioners, neurologists, or geriatric psychiatrists, can assess the situation and rule out reversible causes. They may suggest non-drug approaches or, in some cases, consider medication if symptoms are severe and other strategies are not effective. While antipsychotic medications can help reduce severe delusions, they are generally used cautiously due to potential side effects and are often a last resort when the person or others are at risk of harm. Support groups and dementia specialists can also provide valuable resources and strategies for caregivers facing these challenging situations.